I have decades of experience in helping couples become intentional about their relationships by helping partners speak their experiences together in a way that can create connection, intimacy, individualization, growth and hope.  Our Spoken Love comes from a belief that relationships can’t go on autopilot. That’s not to say couples have been lazy.  Sometimes it comes from working hard on the wrong goals.  Sometimes the problem is misleading social myths. Sometimes is is mental health or trauma. At other times it comes from unconscious beliefs about relationships or sex.  Healthy relationships require messy and sometimes difficult conversations of self discovery that can benefit from an impartial facilitator who through experience and training – as the saying goes – “knows a thing or two because I’ve seen a thing or two”.  Relationships are not one size fits all – so we must speak our love’s many feelings, empathy, desires, needs, boundaries and growth.  To speak these loving intentions out loud in a safe space that allows for non-judgmental curiosity, forgiveness creates relationship flexibility that will sustain connections as they mature over time.